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Em-Em

This morning, Gabe and I were going through one of our beehives when Seth shouted from the top of the hill that Em Em was dead.  We’d been looking for her all morning.  As much as we’ve tried to keep her indoors, she wanted to be outside sometimes, and with all the comings and goings of everyone, she’s been slipping out regularly.  This morning we were worried when we couldn’t find her, but assumed she was in her new favorite hang out under the house.  In fact, she’d been struck by a car.

I stood there in my gloves and jacket surrounded by an angry group of bees (queenless colony) almost frozen in place.  My mind did that thing, that it’s not possible thing.  But then I heard the wails start as the girls heard the news and I started quickly putting supers back in place.  I hurried up the hill fumbling with the zipper on my jacket, finally getting it over my head.  Silas was at the top crying.  When I picked him up, he mentioned that he had fallen down.  He wasn’t actually crying over Em.  At this point I began to sob myself.  I set Silas down only to pick up Beatrix.  I held her in my lap on the porch and cried.  I wanted to be strong and brave, but I couldn’t.  Jonny was already digging a hole, I guess just wanting to quickly get Em taken care of.  Through tears, Larkspur was gathering flowers to place on the grave.  Everything happened so quickly.  It was only last summer that Keats spotted her as a tiny kitten in the Costco parking lot.  He’s always considered her to be his cat.  He was the one to carefully hold her in his lap in the van after I pulled her from the bushes.  His bed was often her first choice at the end of the day.  It’s almost harder to watch an older child fight tears than it is to watch a younger child cry openly.

We took the kids for ice cream, and then I had a night out with friends which helped.  I’ll confess that I had both a hot fudge sundae and a salted caramel milkshake in one day.

Anyway, this is the last thing that I wanted to be writing about tonight, but I figure it’s best to get it over with.  Em is in so many of my pictures.  She was such a curious, intelligent little cat, always right in the middle of things.  It’s difficult to lose a pet, at least it always has been for me.  Even more so is to watch your children grieve the loss.  Em will be missed.  She can’t be replaced.

(Hardest time picking photos to go with the post…old one of Em curled up next to me while I knitted.  Recent one of weeds and not even pretty ones–totally unrelated-oh well.)

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Ginny

I believe that when you slow down and savor the small things, you don’t have to wish for a different life; you can discover beauty in the life you already have. {Find out more here...}

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  1. Nahuatl Vargas says

    May 19, 2014 at 11:58 am

    I’m very sorry, I hope you all are recovering somehow.
    We haven’t been able to have a pet, I would love to, but we live in the city in a tiny apartment, I don’t think that a pet would be happy in such space.

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  2. tara says

    May 13, 2014 at 12:23 pm

    I’m so sorry! It’s so hard losing a pet. Poor Keats — and everyone else.

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  3. Ruby says

    May 13, 2014 at 10:51 am

    xoxo

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  4. amy says

    May 11, 2014 at 10:52 am

    I’m late in reading your post but I want to tell your family how sorry I am that your sweet kitty was killed by a car. It’s so deeply painful to lose a beloved animal who was such a source of love and tenderness. I hope that Keats can focus on the great compassion he showed in finding her and loving her; and that your whole family finds comfort in the love your share for each other.

    I know every time I lose a pet I think – no more! Only to be drawn back to the wonders of the animal-human bond and how much I learn from my pets’ love for me and mine for them.

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  5. Lori says

    May 9, 2014 at 10:38 am

    so sorry for your loss <3

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  6. Monique says

    May 9, 2014 at 10:24 am

    Dear Ginny,
    So sorry to read your sad news. Strength and hugs to all of you! And try to remember what a wonderful life you gave her for the past year!

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  7. Heidi says

    May 8, 2014 at 11:52 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss and the grief your family is experiencing. Em Em brought so much joy to all of you and all of us. Thats truly a great gift. Blessings to you all and may she chase many butterflies in heaven!

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  8. Mardi says

    May 8, 2014 at 11:47 pm

    I am so sorry this happened. I know, our pets are like family.

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  9. Estela says

    May 8, 2014 at 11:15 pm

    I’m soo sorry, it’s so hard to loose a pet.

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  10. Betty says

    May 8, 2014 at 10:37 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss! I love cats…I’m certain yours will be loved and missed…

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  11. Beth T. says

    May 8, 2014 at 10:03 pm

    So, so sorry to read this. My heart goes out to each of you. She was dearly loved, which is a gift in this big old world.

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  12. Lou Anne says

    May 8, 2014 at 10:00 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss of EmEm. I have always loved your pictures of this kitty. She was truly a beauty. She was a lucky girl to be with your family and loved.

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  13. chtisty says

    May 8, 2014 at 9:58 pm

    I remember the post on April 24th. Through larkspur eyes- had some grseat pictures of em em. Remember? O

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  14. Lydia says

    May 8, 2014 at 9:27 pm

    So sorry. That’s such a hard thing to go through. All the best to you and your family.

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  15. Sandra Davidson says

    May 8, 2014 at 9:27 pm

    So sorry about loss of sweet Em it it so hard to lose a well loved pet I know this because we have gone through this many times and it is never easy. Blessings to you and family.

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  16. Kim says

    May 8, 2014 at 9:20 pm

    So sorry for your family’s loss.

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  17. Kerry says

    May 8, 2014 at 9:04 pm

    I am so sorry for your loss.

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  18. Cari says

    May 8, 2014 at 8:39 pm

    So sorry for your loss Ginny and Family! I hate losing pets!

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  19. Sheliah says

    May 8, 2014 at 8:28 pm

    Ginny, Wishing sweet memories of EmEm. Losing a pet is so difficult. Hugs to you and your family.

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  20. Sandra says

    May 8, 2014 at 8:23 pm

    Sorry, didn’t mean to post twice.

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  21. Sandra says

    May 8, 2014 at 8:22 pm

    Ginny – I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I adore cats and I know how much you all will miss Em-Em. You’re in my prayers as will the person driving the car. If he or she was a cat lover, there will be equal, if not greater, devastation.

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  22. Sandra says

    May 8, 2014 at 8:20 pm

    Ginny – I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I adore cats and I know how much you all will miss Em-Em. You’re in my prayers.

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  23. Nancy M says

    May 8, 2014 at 8:18 pm

    Oh this is too close to home. We saved a kitten in 2007 and at the time we lived on 3 acres and she would go in and out. Now we live in a neighborhood and we have a screened in porch and she likes to go there but lately she’s been slipping out and hiding under the porch. I’m going to have to keep a better eye on her. I’m so sorry. That’s heartbreaking!

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  24. Taryn Kae Wilson @ Wooly Moss Roots says

    May 8, 2014 at 8:05 pm

    Ginny,
    Sorry to hear about Em Em. That’s always hard.

    Love to you all,
    Taryn

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  25. Penny says

    May 8, 2014 at 8:04 pm

    I’m so so sorry. Sending gentle thoughts to all of you.

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  26. Dana says

    May 8, 2014 at 7:47 pm

    Oh Ginny! I am so SO SORRY! I’ve lost too many cats to cars *sigh* All one can do is pray. She’s resting now in the care of angels. HUGS to you and your sweet family <3

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  27. Andee says

    May 8, 2014 at 7:43 pm

    I’m crying too. I’m so sorry for your loss.

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  28. Linda says

    May 8, 2014 at 7:23 pm

    Oh no! I loved seeing her in pics. A cat in the house is just so sweet. I am so very sorry. I would have cried myself silly. It’s ok.

    My inside cat likes to go outside also but since she is gray and we live on a very busy street or two I won’t let her roam free and I am always keeping an eye on her like a baby. She is a very scaredy cat so I don’t have to worry too much about her escaping. Although once she did while we were putting down a new kitchen floor. She ran out to the corner in the dark! It took forever to catch her. I was crying and mad at my husband for leaving the door open. I let her sit in the backyard attached to a tie-out and sometimes I will walk her around on it in the backyard. She especially likes it in the evening and I have to leave the door open which I don’t like but I want her to be happy. Sorry to ramble.

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  29. jen says

    May 8, 2014 at 7:15 pm

    Em Em looks like my cat Freya.

    Massive hugs from northern California to you and your family.

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  30. Angela says

    May 8, 2014 at 7:15 pm

    Oh, so sorry. I have been through this twice with dearly loved little friends. Really truly heartbreaking. Haven’t had to do this since kids though. Best wishes. A

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  31. Shelly says

    May 8, 2014 at 4:54 pm

    Huge hugs!! We’ve had that happen to a few when we lived in the country and it is always just absolutely and completely heartbreaking. Just reading this brought back the memories of all the cats that have passed through our lives and every single one of them is missed so much! And, yes, I never, ever know how to help my son through it or what to do for him. Only 2 kinds of ice cream for a day like that is showing great restraint, in my opinion.

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  32. Ashley says

    May 8, 2014 at 4:54 pm

    So sorry for your loss. A pet is such a joy and their loss always leaves such a hole in the family. Wish that you all remember the special times you had with her.

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  33. Andrea says

    May 8, 2014 at 4:12 pm

    I feel with your family. Mine lost two cats to accidents with a car and anyway, no matter how it happens, it is always so hard to let a pet go…I´ll have your family in my prayers tonight.

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  34. Erika says

    May 8, 2014 at 4:12 pm

    Oh I am so, so sorry….sitting at my desk at work with a tear in my eye.
    It’s always so hard to lose a beloved pet.

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  35. Charlotte says

    May 8, 2014 at 2:58 pm

    Oh Ginny this is so sad, im so sorry. I wish you all well.

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